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[kengr]

 

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[acelightning.livejournal.com]

[ruth-lawrence.livejournal.com]

:-)

I am a dominant masochist and refuse to do caps either way!

[kengr]

It's a reference to a very annoying habit of online subs (or in some cases, their masters)

"i, shadow, am *so* unworthy of Your attention, Sir..." is a totally inadequate sample.

Only thing worse is the "W/we wish to notify Y/you of..." bit.

[kengr]

I note that you recently friended me. Dare I ask what drew your attention?

[ruth-lawrence.livejournal.com]

I saw you in other journals (in fact, have fairly often)...and looked at your interests list.

If you don't want me reading you, just say.

[kengr]

I was just curious. So often folks just appear on my friends list and there's no indication of why (or worse their interest make them look sorta creept).

You, let me hasten to add, aren't of that latter group.

BTW, dominant masochist? Gee, you'd fit in great with the scene I was involved in years back. There I was, flogging Conrad and he was telling me where and how hard to hit. With me cheerily replying "Yes, Sir!" :-)

submissive sadists and dominant masochists break people's heads, don't they. :-)

[kengr]

I presume you'd be interested in being on the "kink" filter then?

[ruth-lawrence.livejournal.com]

Yes please!

And I do do caps as a joke sometimes :-)

[kengr]

I/i added you to it. :-)

And I added you to my erotica filter as well, though I haven't posted to it in ages.

[acelightning.livejournal.com]

[ruth-lawrence.livejournal.com]

Thank Y/you :-) !

[kengr]

Yep, or "I have a major idiot/asshole as a 'master' and don't know enough to call him on this BS."

[acelightning.livejournal.com]

[kengr]

Some people may want to. Others just don't realize that a D/s relationship *doesn't* have to be that way.

Oh, here's an example from a yahoo group, just a few minutes ago:

Hi A/all,
I am wondering if A/anyone has experience with female chastity devices
or techniques? I hear a lot about males, but not much about females.
Also has A/anyone found anything interesting that might work on bigger
women?

Look forward to hearing from P/people.

(and then she capitalized her name in the sig... Say what?)

[acelightning.livejournal.com]

[kengr]

Alas, there a lot "doms" who are *exactly* like that, except maybe minus the suicide attempts.

Which is why all the stuff you've read emphasizes consent and othewr stuff.

[acelightning.livejournal.com]