Some people may want to. Others just don't realize that a D/s relationship *doesn't* have to be that way.
Oh, here's an example from a yahoo group, just a few minutes ago:
Hi A/all, I am wondering if A/anyone has experience with female chastity devices or techniques? I hear a lot about males, but not much about females. Also has A/anyone found anything interesting that might work on bigger women?
Look forward to hearing from P/people.
(and then she capitalized her name in the sig... Say what?)
I was just curious. So often folks just appear on my friends list and there's no indication of why (or worse their interest make them look sorta creept).
You, let me hasten to add, aren't of that latter group.
BTW, dominant masochist? Gee, you'd fit in great with the scene I was involved in years back. There I was, flogging Conrad and he was telling me where and how hard to hit. With me cheerily replying "Yes, Sir!" :-)
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Date: 2007-08-28 08:49 am (UTC)no subject
Date: 2007-08-28 10:32 am (UTC)"i, shadow, am *so* unworthy of Your attention, Sir..." is a totally inadequate sample.
Only thing worse is the "W/we wish to notify Y/you of..." bit.
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Date: 2007-08-28 11:33 pm (UTC)no subject
Date: 2007-08-29 03:16 am (UTC)no subject
Date: 2007-08-29 03:26 am (UTC)no subject
Date: 2007-08-29 08:41 pm (UTC)Oh, here's an example from a yahoo group, just a few minutes ago:
Hi A/all,
I am wondering if A/anyone has experience with female chastity devices
or techniques? I hear a lot about males, but not much about females.
Also has A/anyone found anything interesting that might work on bigger
women?
Look forward to hearing from P/people.
(and then she capitalized her name in the sig... Say what?)
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Date: 2007-08-30 02:16 am (UTC)no subject
Date: 2007-08-30 05:47 am (UTC)Which is why all the stuff you've read emphasizes consent and othewr stuff.
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Date: 2007-08-30 06:18 am (UTC)no subject
Date: 2007-08-28 09:43 am (UTC)I am a dominant masochist and refuse to do caps either way!
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Date: 2007-08-28 10:33 am (UTC)no subject
Date: 2007-08-28 12:10 pm (UTC)If you don't want me reading you, just say.
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Date: 2007-08-28 07:33 pm (UTC)You, let me hasten to add, aren't of that latter group.
BTW, dominant masochist? Gee, you'd fit in great with the scene I was involved in years back. There I was, flogging Conrad and he was telling me where and how hard to hit. With me cheerily replying "Yes, Sir!" :-)
submissive sadists and dominant masochists break people's heads, don't they. :-)
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Date: 2007-08-28 07:34 pm (UTC)no subject
Date: 2007-08-28 09:09 pm (UTC)And I do do caps as a joke sometimes :-)
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Date: 2007-08-28 11:27 pm (UTC)And I added you to my erotica filter as well, though I haven't posted to it in ages.
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Date: 2007-08-28 11:45 pm (UTC)