Silly. Or is it?

[kengr]

http://community.livejournal.com/odd_sex/47113.html

I guess I'm weird for thinking that embarrassing as it is, it might be preferable to what passes for "negotiation" on the average date... :-(

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[badriya.livejournal.com]

I think I'd have gone off the boil by then :)

[kengr]

Well, yeah, there is that. On the other hand, getting "on the boil" is kinda hard when you are really worried that someone is going to react badly... which given my phobia/social-social-cues-reading problems is a far too common thing.