Looking for aide

For a story idea I have I need to know what you call someone who helps a disabled person. Specifically one who doesn't have hand (and can't have prosthetics for story reasons).

I know they'd be an aide, but what *kind* of aide?

Incel asshats

: sexismisnotover: YOU ARE NOT ENTITLED TO JACK SHIT FROM WOMEN, YOU SAD, PATHETIC MAN-CHILDREN! THE WORLD...

TLDR: Incel supporter suggesting that the government "assign girlfriends" to single men and not understanding why this might be a problem.

By the same "logic" single gay men should be assigned boyfriends by the government. So ask him how he'd feel if he was assigned as some gay guy's boyfriend.

I'd bet he'd be all "that's crazy, that's wrong, I don't want to be a gay guy's boyfriend"

Maybe, just *maybe* this might get across the idea that having an SO is *not* a right. In fact, you have to *earn* one by being the sort of person they want to be with.