Thoughts to ponder

[kengr]

Stolen from da_bwat who "borrowed" it from txgirlie

Read Each One Carefully and Think About It a Second or Two

1. No man or woman is worth your tears, and the one who is, won't make you cry.

2. Just because someone doesn't love you the way you want them to, doesn't mean they don't love you with all they have.

3. A true friend is someone who reaches for your hand and touches your heart.

4. The worst way to miss someone is to be sitting right beside them knowing you can't have them.

5. Never frown, even when you are sad, because you never know who is falling in love with your smile.

6. To the world you may be one person, but to one person you may be the world.

7. Don't waste your time on a man/woman, who isn't willing to waste their time on you.

8. Maybe God wants us to meet a few wrong people before meeting the right one, so that when we finally meet the person, we will know how to be grateful.

9. Don't cry because it is over, smile because it happened.

10. There's always going to be people that hurt you so what you have to do is keep on trusting and just be more careful about who you trust next time around.

11. Make yourself a better person and know who you are before you try and know someone else and expect them to know you.

12. Don't try so hard, the best things come when you least expect them to.

Comments

[janetmiles.livejournal.com]

1. Bullshit. I cry when my friends are hurting; I cried when my parents died. Nobody gets to tell me who is and isn't worth my tears.

5. Oh, dandy. This sort of black-and-white thinking is one of the things making someone we both like very unhappy at the moment.

11. Wants two different things: know yourself and "be a better person". I'm not buying it.

12. No, no sense working hard for what you want.

Yes, I'm feeling grouchy right now.

[kengr]

Oh, I know it's got problems. But you *did* think about it. :-)

It's about half "yesh, that's a thought" and half "you're kidding right?"

But that's what makes it good to think about (as opposed to agree with)

[kshandra]

1. Bullshit. I cry when my friends are hurting; I cried when my parents died. Nobody gets to tell me who is and isn't worth my tears.

I owe you about a dozen drinks.

*leaves a hug where you can get to it when you're not feeling as grouchy*

[janetmiles.livejournal.com]

Not sure why that statement is worhty of a dozen drinks, but I'll accept the hug; I'm not feeling grouchy now, just fuzzy (not enough sleep).