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da_bwat
1. Have you ever masturbated with a friend?
yes
2. On a scale of 1-10, if 1 is a very mild discomfort and 10 is the most pain you can imagine, how painful was your first sexual intercourse?
Being male, the answer is zero. Though if you want to get technical "Brooke" is still a virgin. That may be a bit uncomfortable.
3. Has anyone ever told you that masturbation was "bad"?
No, but I did find an old book on parenting that my mom had. And it had an entry in the index for "masturbation". The attitude was barely tolerant.
4. Should younger kids (say, 8-11) be allowed some, limited, sexual behaviors (for instance, masturbation, mutual masturbation, typical childhood sex games)?
Well, I did some of that with other kids my age when I was growing up. I don't think it warped me.
I think questions deserve honest *informed* answers. With as little judgment as possible. Instead of "that's wrong" something like "A lot of people will be upset with you if they find out that you do that" for example.
5. Have you ever seen your parents having sexual intercourse?
I was raised by a widow. And if she ever had sex with anyone, it wasn't at home.
6. Do you feel that your physical appearance is reasonably attractive to the opposite sex?
No.
7. Have you ever felt like you were in love with (or had a crush on) someone of your own sex?
Heck, my *first* crush was on a guy!
8. After your 12th birthday, and before your 20th, have you ever had a voluntary relationship with someone who was at least 10 years older than you were at the time, that involved at least sexual touching?
no.
9. If you are sexually "active," have you ever had sexual intercourse while anyone else was present and able to see you and your partner?
Nope. :-(
10. Do you feel that your sex drive is more or less than average?
I think it used to be a lot more than average, but now that I'm past 40, I think it's probably rather below average.
11. Girls sometimes worry about how much they will bleed with first intercourse. How much did you bleed?
Well, being male, this doesn't apply.
12. What do your parents know about your sex life?
My mom knew nothing. And since she's dead, it's no longer an issue. My friends know more or less what they are comfortable with knowing.
13. Do you feel that it is possible to love more than one person (romantically) at the same time?
Yes, though I'm not sure how to make things work out.
14. Do you usually or frequently sleep in the nude?
I used to. These days I mostly don't. But that's more for comfort than anything else.
15. Did you ever have an orgasm without touching yourself or being touched?
Not unless you count using electrical "toys". :-)
16. Did you learn to masturbate on your own, or did someone teach you how?
A friend in 7th grade showed me.
17. Do you trim or shave your pubic hair?
Sometimes. Thinking about eventually getting much of it permanently removed.
18. Who do you think has the most interesting body, from a sexual point of view?
Dunno. Bodies are nice, personalities are nicer.
19. What do you think about the sexual parts you have between your legs?
Penis could stand to be considerably longer. Balls could stand to be smaller. They get in the way a lot. And if it were possible, I wouldn't mind being able to "test drive" female genitals. :-)
20. Do you ever get sexually turned on as a result of playing sports?
No. And I was lousy at sports anyway.
21. Do you feel that you are sexually deprived because of your society or culture?
Yeah.
22. Have you ever looked for porn on the Internet?
Want to see my huge list of story sites?
23. Have you ever seen your parents naked?
My mom a few times when I was younger.
24. When you feel the need to masturbate, is it USUALLY because you had been thinking about sex, or does the feeling just come on suddenly by itself?
Yes.
25. Boys sometimes complain of 'blue balls,' which is pain in the testicles after a session of sexual stimulation without orgasm. Do girls ever get the same sort of thing (pain in the pelvis or vagina from lack of release)?
I seem to recall that there's research which says that *some* women can get this.
25. Do you find feet sexually attractive?
Nope.
26. Girls often seem to boys as if they are not interested in doing sexual things. Why do you think this is?
Social conditioning, plus differences in hormonal stuff. Guys tend to be a lot more "needy" that way.
27. If a person seems very interested in you right away, does that turn you off?
I'll let you know if it ever happens.
28. Do you need more of a challenge?
I like some kinds of challenges. And loathe others.
29. Do you pee while you are taking a shower?
I've been known to. It's a guy thing. :-)
30. Have you ever done anything sexual for which you, or your partner, could have been arrested?
Yes.
31. How frequently in the course of a usual day do you feel sexual desire (get 'horny')? how many minutes in a day?
Some days, none. Some days I can spend hours being horny. :-)
32. Honestly now, if you are sexually active with a partner, do you generally think of yourself as 'making love' or 'having sex or fucking?
I plead insufficient experience for a meaningful answer. :-(
33. Do you think adults have ANY idea of what is going on sexually with teens and pre-teens these days?
When have they *ever*?
34. Tell us this about your favorite sexual fantasy:
Probably the one that involves being tied in an "all fours" position and being blindfolded and "used" by a bunch of folks, sex, S/M, etc.
35. Do you feel that between roughly the ages of 5 to 10, you were simply unaware of sexual thoughts or feelings?
Not sure. I know my *masochism* had come out by about age 4. But sexual? Not sure. *probably* after age 10.
36. Do you masturbate in the shower or tub?
Yes, sometimes
37. Does your closest friend know pretty much everything about your sex life?
Yes.
38. Have you ever admitted to anyone else that you masturbate?
I've attended two Masturbate-a-thons. What do *you* think? :-)
39. For girls: Were you frightened by your first period?
Not a girl.
40. How do you identify in terms of gender?
Sort of a mix. Male with a lot of "femme". If I had a permanent solution to the hair problem, I'd probably dress female most of the time. As it is, it's too damn much *work* to do regularly.
41. What is your sexual orientation?
Bi, kinky.
42. What is your relationship status?
Not in one. :-(
43. Do you use sex toys on your own?
Yes.
44. Do you use sex toys with a partner?
On the occasions that I've had a partner who was willing.
45. Who are you most likely to fantasize about when you masturbate?
Not sure. I tend to fantasize about *situations*, not people.
46. Do you masturbate more or less when you're in a relationship?
Dunno.
47. Do you think secretly masturbating while in a relationship is a low-grade form of cheating?
Only if you've got an agreement that you aren't supposed to masturbate.(Or not do so without letting them know)
48. Do you watch porn when you're alone?
I have.
49. Do you read erotica/pornographic art/graphic novels?
Yes.
50. Do you surf online porn?
Sometimes. Mostly text. Typical "posed" porn doesn't do much for me.
51. What kind of porn do you enjoy?
BDSM, mostly. Though a lot of TV/TG porn is fun too.
52. What quality is most important to you in a partner?
That they want me?
53. Who's responsible for paying on a first date?
Well, my (limited) experience has been that the one who asks, pays.
54. What do you think of online personals?
Interesting, but I've never had any luck.
55. Best place to meet a partner?
If I knew, I'd be there.
56. How long do you date someone before having sex, in general?
Good question. It's ranged from *years* to a first date.
57. Have you ever had a one-night stand?
Yes. And gotten quite a scare when I saw her with a new baby about 12 months later
58. Have you ever been in an open relationship?
Sort of.
60. When in a relationship do you usually enjoy sex the most?
Given that I've been in a grand total of three relationships, and two of them were long distance and the other didn't have a lot of sex, I can't really say.
61. Have you ever had cybersex?
Yes.
62. Have you ever had phone sex?
Yes.
63. Have you ever kept an online diary?
Yes.
64. How do you define cheating?
Something that you know your partner(s) would disapprove of if they knew and that you *know* they'd disapprove of.
65. Have you ever cheated on a partner?
Maybe.
66. Would you dump a partner if you found out they cheated on you?
Dunno.
67. Would you rather be on top or bottom?
Bottom. I'm not even sure I could make things *work* from on top anymore.
68. Do you like getting fingered?
Yes.
69. Do you like giving handjobs?
They're ok, but I prefer giving blowjobs :-)
70. Has anyone ever paid YOU for a sex act?
No.
71. How do you feel about period sex?
Dunno.
72. Do you have any rape fantasies?
Yes!
73. Would you play out a rape fantasy with a consenting partner?
Yes.
74. When did you lose your virginity?
Around age 20-22, can't recall for certain.
75. How long were you in a relationship with the person you gave it to?
I wasn't really in a relationship with her. She was a friend and decided to help "relieve" me of this burden. Probably a good thing, too as I suspect that things would have been an utter disaster otherwise.
76. What do you think the age of consent should be?
When they are mature enough to understand the possible consequences. Which varies and not necessarily by age.
77. How many sexual partners have you had?
4.
78. Have you ever lied to a partner about the number of people you've slept with?
No.
79. Have you ever faked an orgasm?
I'm not *equipped* to fake one.
80. Do you think size matters?
Yes.
81. Do you think elasticity of the vagina matters?
No idea.
82. At what point in a relationship do you have intercourse without barrier protection?
Haven't had to consider that much. My first partner had had her tubes tied (and it was the 70s). My second I was too stupid to think about using protection (hence the scare about the baby). My third didn't want to risk pregnancy and couldn't use the pill, so going without wasn't an option. And the last didn't want to use it (and we had reason to believe that neither of use was at risk for STDs).
83. Have you ever had intercourse without asking about someone's sexual history first?
Yes.
84. Have you ever had oral sex without asking about someone's sexual history first?
Yes, but I have used condoms except for once, with someone whose history I knew.
85. Ever had an STD?
Nope.
86. Are you attracted to members of the same biological sex as you?
Yes, though I prefer females.
87. Do you think it's possible to be bisexual?
I *am* bisexual.
88. How often do you initiate sex?
This requires a partner. And one who doesn't beat you to it, at that.
I've only had one partner where I initiated things. And one of the reasons we went back to being "just friends"was because she wasn't *interested* in sex most of the time. I was getting frustrated and she was feeling pressured.
da_bwat1. Have you ever masturbated with a friend?
yes
2. On a scale of 1-10, if 1 is a very mild discomfort and 10 is the most pain you can imagine, how painful was your first sexual intercourse?
Being male, the answer is zero. Though if you want to get technical "Brooke" is still a virgin. That may be a bit uncomfortable.
3. Has anyone ever told you that masturbation was "bad"?
No, but I did find an old book on parenting that my mom had. And it had an entry in the index for "masturbation". The attitude was barely tolerant.
4. Should younger kids (say, 8-11) be allowed some, limited, sexual behaviors (for instance, masturbation, mutual masturbation, typical childhood sex games)?
Well, I did some of that with other kids my age when I was growing up. I don't think it warped me.
I think questions deserve honest *informed* answers. With as little judgment as possible. Instead of "that's wrong" something like "A lot of people will be upset with you if they find out that you do that" for example.
5. Have you ever seen your parents having sexual intercourse?
I was raised by a widow. And if she ever had sex with anyone, it wasn't at home.
6. Do you feel that your physical appearance is reasonably attractive to the opposite sex?
No.
7. Have you ever felt like you were in love with (or had a crush on) someone of your own sex?
Heck, my *first* crush was on a guy!
8. After your 12th birthday, and before your 20th, have you ever had a voluntary relationship with someone who was at least 10 years older than you were at the time, that involved at least sexual touching?
no.
9. If you are sexually "active," have you ever had sexual intercourse while anyone else was present and able to see you and your partner?
Nope. :-(
10. Do you feel that your sex drive is more or less than average?
I think it used to be a lot more than average, but now that I'm past 40, I think it's probably rather below average.
11. Girls sometimes worry about how much they will bleed with first intercourse. How much did you bleed?
Well, being male, this doesn't apply.
12. What do your parents know about your sex life?
My mom knew nothing. And since she's dead, it's no longer an issue. My friends know more or less what they are comfortable with knowing.
13. Do you feel that it is possible to love more than one person (romantically) at the same time?
Yes, though I'm not sure how to make things work out.
14. Do you usually or frequently sleep in the nude?
I used to. These days I mostly don't. But that's more for comfort than anything else.
15. Did you ever have an orgasm without touching yourself or being touched?
Not unless you count using electrical "toys". :-)
16. Did you learn to masturbate on your own, or did someone teach you how?
A friend in 7th grade showed me.
17. Do you trim or shave your pubic hair?
Sometimes. Thinking about eventually getting much of it permanently removed.
18. Who do you think has the most interesting body, from a sexual point of view?
Dunno. Bodies are nice, personalities are nicer.
19. What do you think about the sexual parts you have between your legs?
Penis could stand to be considerably longer. Balls could stand to be smaller. They get in the way a lot. And if it were possible, I wouldn't mind being able to "test drive" female genitals. :-)
20. Do you ever get sexually turned on as a result of playing sports?
No. And I was lousy at sports anyway.
21. Do you feel that you are sexually deprived because of your society or culture?
Yeah.
22. Have you ever looked for porn on the Internet?
Want to see my huge list of story sites?
23. Have you ever seen your parents naked?
My mom a few times when I was younger.
24. When you feel the need to masturbate, is it USUALLY because you had been thinking about sex, or does the feeling just come on suddenly by itself?
Yes.
25. Boys sometimes complain of 'blue balls,' which is pain in the testicles after a session of sexual stimulation without orgasm. Do girls ever get the same sort of thing (pain in the pelvis or vagina from lack of release)?
I seem to recall that there's research which says that *some* women can get this.
25. Do you find feet sexually attractive?
Nope.
26. Girls often seem to boys as if they are not interested in doing sexual things. Why do you think this is?
Social conditioning, plus differences in hormonal stuff. Guys tend to be a lot more "needy" that way.
27. If a person seems very interested in you right away, does that turn you off?
I'll let you know if it ever happens.
28. Do you need more of a challenge?
I like some kinds of challenges. And loathe others.
29. Do you pee while you are taking a shower?
I've been known to. It's a guy thing. :-)
30. Have you ever done anything sexual for which you, or your partner, could have been arrested?
Yes.
31. How frequently in the course of a usual day do you feel sexual desire (get 'horny')? how many minutes in a day?
Some days, none. Some days I can spend hours being horny. :-)
32. Honestly now, if you are sexually active with a partner, do you generally think of yourself as 'making love' or 'having sex or fucking?
I plead insufficient experience for a meaningful answer. :-(
33. Do you think adults have ANY idea of what is going on sexually with teens and pre-teens these days?
When have they *ever*?
34. Tell us this about your favorite sexual fantasy:
Probably the one that involves being tied in an "all fours" position and being blindfolded and "used" by a bunch of folks, sex, S/M, etc.
35. Do you feel that between roughly the ages of 5 to 10, you were simply unaware of sexual thoughts or feelings?
Not sure. I know my *masochism* had come out by about age 4. But sexual? Not sure. *probably* after age 10.
36. Do you masturbate in the shower or tub?
Yes, sometimes
37. Does your closest friend know pretty much everything about your sex life?
Yes.
38. Have you ever admitted to anyone else that you masturbate?
I've attended two Masturbate-a-thons. What do *you* think? :-)
39. For girls: Were you frightened by your first period?
Not a girl.
40. How do you identify in terms of gender?
Sort of a mix. Male with a lot of "femme". If I had a permanent solution to the hair problem, I'd probably dress female most of the time. As it is, it's too damn much *work* to do regularly.
41. What is your sexual orientation?
Bi, kinky.
42. What is your relationship status?
Not in one. :-(
43. Do you use sex toys on your own?
Yes.
44. Do you use sex toys with a partner?
On the occasions that I've had a partner who was willing.
45. Who are you most likely to fantasize about when you masturbate?
Not sure. I tend to fantasize about *situations*, not people.
46. Do you masturbate more or less when you're in a relationship?
Dunno.
47. Do you think secretly masturbating while in a relationship is a low-grade form of cheating?
Only if you've got an agreement that you aren't supposed to masturbate.(Or not do so without letting them know)
48. Do you watch porn when you're alone?
I have.
49. Do you read erotica/pornographic art/graphic novels?
Yes.
50. Do you surf online porn?
Sometimes. Mostly text. Typical "posed" porn doesn't do much for me.
51. What kind of porn do you enjoy?
BDSM, mostly. Though a lot of TV/TG porn is fun too.
52. What quality is most important to you in a partner?
That they want me?
53. Who's responsible for paying on a first date?
Well, my (limited) experience has been that the one who asks, pays.
54. What do you think of online personals?
Interesting, but I've never had any luck.
55. Best place to meet a partner?
If I knew, I'd be there.
56. How long do you date someone before having sex, in general?
Good question. It's ranged from *years* to a first date.
57. Have you ever had a one-night stand?
Yes. And gotten quite a scare when I saw her with a new baby about 12 months later
58. Have you ever been in an open relationship?
Sort of.
60. When in a relationship do you usually enjoy sex the most?
Given that I've been in a grand total of three relationships, and two of them were long distance and the other didn't have a lot of sex, I can't really say.
61. Have you ever had cybersex?
Yes.
62. Have you ever had phone sex?
Yes.
63. Have you ever kept an online diary?
Yes.
64. How do you define cheating?
Something that you know your partner(s) would disapprove of if they knew and that you *know* they'd disapprove of.
65. Have you ever cheated on a partner?
Maybe.
66. Would you dump a partner if you found out they cheated on you?
Dunno.
67. Would you rather be on top or bottom?
Bottom. I'm not even sure I could make things *work* from on top anymore.
68. Do you like getting fingered?
Yes.
69. Do you like giving handjobs?
They're ok, but I prefer giving blowjobs :-)
70. Has anyone ever paid YOU for a sex act?
No.
71. How do you feel about period sex?
Dunno.
72. Do you have any rape fantasies?
Yes!
73. Would you play out a rape fantasy with a consenting partner?
Yes.
74. When did you lose your virginity?
Around age 20-22, can't recall for certain.
75. How long were you in a relationship with the person you gave it to?
I wasn't really in a relationship with her. She was a friend and decided to help "relieve" me of this burden. Probably a good thing, too as I suspect that things would have been an utter disaster otherwise.
76. What do you think the age of consent should be?
When they are mature enough to understand the possible consequences. Which varies and not necessarily by age.
77. How many sexual partners have you had?
4.
78. Have you ever lied to a partner about the number of people you've slept with?
No.
79. Have you ever faked an orgasm?
I'm not *equipped* to fake one.
80. Do you think size matters?
Yes.
81. Do you think elasticity of the vagina matters?
No idea.
82. At what point in a relationship do you have intercourse without barrier protection?
Haven't had to consider that much. My first partner had had her tubes tied (and it was the 70s). My second I was too stupid to think about using protection (hence the scare about the baby). My third didn't want to risk pregnancy and couldn't use the pill, so going without wasn't an option. And the last didn't want to use it (and we had reason to believe that neither of use was at risk for STDs).
83. Have you ever had intercourse without asking about someone's sexual history first?
Yes.
84. Have you ever had oral sex without asking about someone's sexual history first?
Yes, but I have used condoms except for once, with someone whose history I knew.
85. Ever had an STD?
Nope.
86. Are you attracted to members of the same biological sex as you?
Yes, though I prefer females.
87. Do you think it's possible to be bisexual?
I *am* bisexual.
88. How often do you initiate sex?
This requires a partner. And one who doesn't beat you to it, at that.
I've only had one partner where I initiated things. And one of the reasons we went back to being "just friends"was because she wasn't *interested* in sex most of the time. I was getting frustrated and she was feeling pressured.
