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Why kids don't listen
Oct. 14th, 2019 04:32 pmLocal news had an item about how to talk to your kids about vaping & marijuana. One of the questions they asked was "Why don't kids realize the risks?"
And they totally *ignored* the big reason. Kids don't believe warnings about how risky things are because they are fed a steady diet of alarmist or blown out of proportion "risks" of various things.
Since they know for a fact that they are being lied to about *some* things, why should they believe adults about other things?
Now add in the fact (that they *did* mention) that kids have poor judgment because of ongoing brain development until well into their 20s and you've got a recipe for disaster.
Folks, to get kids to trust your warnings, you have to *prove* that you *are* trustworthy. And many adults have shown that they *can't* be trusted to be honest.
then add in all the utter bilge taught in many health classes (especially sex ed) and it's a wonder they believe anything they are told.
And they totally *ignored* the big reason. Kids don't believe warnings about how risky things are because they are fed a steady diet of alarmist or blown out of proportion "risks" of various things.
Since they know for a fact that they are being lied to about *some* things, why should they believe adults about other things?
Now add in the fact (that they *did* mention) that kids have poor judgment because of ongoing brain development until well into their 20s and you've got a recipe for disaster.
Folks, to get kids to trust your warnings, you have to *prove* that you *are* trustworthy. And many adults have shown that they *can't* be trusted to be honest.
then add in all the utter bilge taught in many health classes (especially sex ed) and it's a wonder they believe anything they are told.
