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I'm waiting for backlogged mail to process on Kathy's BBS box.
I got bored and something (maybe something from the TV Kathy's watching) got me thinking about what exactly I'd want in the way of a "sex friend" (I forget who came up with that, but it sounds much better than "fuck buddy" :-)
And the thought came to me that it'd be nice to be asked. (As opposed to asking).
I think this may apply to a lot of my "relationship stuff".
Maybe it's partly the "wanting to be wanted" bit. And I'm sure that some of it is "relief" from the "fear" of "pushing to hard".
This may be one of the nicer things about having Lin for a friend. She calls *me* a lot. Not that I don't call her, but I do hold back from calling all the time to avoid being a nuisance.
Anyway. I think that wanting to be asked bit may be an important insight. (aka a "duh! moment :-)
I got bored and something (maybe something from the TV Kathy's watching) got me thinking about what exactly I'd want in the way of a "sex friend" (I forget who came up with that, but it sounds much better than "fuck buddy" :-)
And the thought came to me that it'd be nice to be asked. (As opposed to asking).
I think this may apply to a lot of my "relationship stuff".
Maybe it's partly the "wanting to be wanted" bit. And I'm sure that some of it is "relief" from the "fear" of "pushing to hard".
This may be one of the nicer things about having Lin for a friend. She calls *me* a lot. Not that I don't call her, but I do hold back from calling all the time to avoid being a nuisance.
Anyway. I think that wanting to be asked bit may be an important insight. (aka a "duh! moment :-)
