kengr

Iffen you say so. Alas, while I can kinda grasp that mindset, it's very alien to me.

My masculinity wasn't much in doubt from an early age. Most of the other kids figured I didn't have much (and I wasn't terribly interested in getting any).

As for pride and self-worth, lets not go there. At least not in the "high depression risk" part of the year.