So while many see it as a "you have to believe you can do it" thing, I (and others) see it as calling efforts that don't succeed the fault of the person making the attempt. And make them a personal flaw rather than a need for more training or whatever.
Oh ghods. (me = someone else with that particular damage set.)
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Oh ghods. (me = someone else with that particular damage set.)
Just... word.