[identity profile] starcat-jewel.livejournal.com 2005-02-10 05:52 am (UTC)(link)
That first one contains a lot of globally useful information. Would you mind if I edited out the BDSM-specific bits and posted it in my journal?

[identity profile] starcat-jewel.livejournal.com 2005-02-11 06:20 am (UTC)(link)
It's here (http://www.livejournal.com/users/starcat_jewel/82679.html); feel free to copy if you like.