The word you're looking for is "entitlement".

As in;
They put in a lot of effort so they think they're entitled to success.
They were born into a rich family so they are entitled to be all the benefits of that.
They're white, so they're entitled to the privileges that come with that.

and of course, the flip-side is that if you're not successful, privileged or white, then you're not entitled to any of those.


So, yeah.. fuck 'em.