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kengr ([personal profile] kengr) wrote2019-10-14 04:32 pm
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Why kids don't listen

Local news had an item about how to talk to your kids about vaping & marijuana. One of the questions they asked was "Why don't kids realize the risks?"

And they totally *ignored* the big reason. Kids don't believe warnings about how risky things are because they are fed a steady diet of alarmist or blown out of proportion "risks" of various things.

Since they know for a fact that they are being lied to about *some* things, why should they believe adults about other things?

Now add in the fact (that they *did* mention) that kids have poor judgment because of ongoing brain development until well into their 20s and you've got a recipe for disaster.

Folks, to get kids to trust your warnings, you have to *prove* that you *are* trustworthy. And many adults have shown that they *can't* be trusted to be honest.

then add in all the utter bilge taught in many health classes (especially sex ed) and it's a wonder they believe anything they are told.
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[personal profile] conuly 2019-10-15 01:06 am (UTC)(link)
Which is why all I've said to the nieces about tobacco and marijuana is "for crying out loud, you're asthmatics*, your lungs can NOT take too much smoke inhalation. If you're going to do it, at least find some other method of consumption".


* Eva's only had one major asthmatic incident, so actually she's probably not, but it was bad enough she never wants to do it again.